Ramadan Diaries: Many Eids

Ramadan makes me feel like I'm living inside a Rolling Stones song. It doesn't matter which one
I am an unlikely author for these entries. With Ramadan now over, it strikes me—without deep embarrassment, just the cooling knowledge of personal fact—how much I I used to dread this month. I stopped partaking in it for years after college, even growing hateful at how it disrupted life without my consent especially in countries where its commemoration ground public life to a halt. This was especially true in Rabat, where I lived in a twelfth-century Almohad Caliphate fortress for an entire summer alone, desperate for both food and a wifi connection less spotty than the kasbah's impenetrable walls allowed. I was there on a dissertation fellowship to research the Moroccan film archives, in a municipal building whose schedule was more a social suggestion than set business hours. The government officials who checked out 35mm film reels to me seemed… Read More...

Ramadan Diaries: Where's the Information?

There will be no American garbage uprising
"I tore myself away from the safe comfort of certainties through my love for truth—and truth rewarded me." —Simone de Beauvoir, The Second Sex I'm at my typewriter, elbows floating midair. I type up the poem I wrote longhand, as I do all of them, in a soundless tunnel. I used to wish that all of my genres progressed this way, from fountain pen to typewriter ink to Google Doc. But that's not realistic. I understand the midwifery of poems, which arrive violently like parturition. I am working constantly to drop natural resistance in other areas of life, as the poem does the guard. I will do it. It takes me two evenings to finish the poem. I deliver the information. "Where's the information?" That's Kendall Roy's first remark after grasping that his father has died. Not "passed away" but… Read More...

Ramadan Diaries: Heroes & Orphans

In feeling so othered, so alien, so alone and for so long, the orphan develops a taste for otherness itself. To be so truly unbelonged anywhere one has to create a self that belongs everywhere.
"Sí, tu niñez, ya fábula de fuentes." (Yes, your childhood, a fable for fountains now.) —Jorge Guillén My Capoeira Angola teacher has been bringing up the trio of M's lately. Mandinga, malícia, manha. After years of immersion the meaning of these words feels instinctual in their original language and context, but that afternoon, daydream-like, I decide to explore definitions in English. I imagine a chalkboard at which I'm responsible to explain these concepts not only across linguistic intent but cultural model. Mandinga is sorcery and magic, often associated with the "devil" (all of the definitions I consult put the devil in quotation marks, as though to contain him). Malicía is guile and "badness" (another definition behind iron bars!). Manha is ruse and trickery; I add finesse to that list. The capoeirista's ideal path is indirect, sparked by trickery; you have to… Read More...

Ramadan Diaries: Looking Backward, Looking Inward

I felt the pull of a huge shift, a vortex swallowing a former shriveled identity and leaving me with the terror of choice, a new path.
"Ramadan Diaries" began in 2019, and I repeated the series in 2021. Without intending to, I skipped a year in between each cycle, including March 2020, where I spent Ramadan trapped in an ad hoc Airbnb rental in Salvador, Brazil, when all commercial flights to the U.S. were suddenly grounded. It is now 2023 and the entries that ensue comprise its final cycle. Over a third of the month has already passed. As is typical, in what I will now affectionately call Monalisa's Rule of Thirds, it usually takes me a third of the way into a revolution (the third month of the year, for example) to adjust myself to the new temperature. This year Ramadan roared thunderously into the little forest cottage of my life. It tore through the bushes, wrestled the floor rugs, muffed the curtain rods, broke… Read More...

Ramadan Diaries: Personification

A national gas-lighting project. That we didn’t see what we saw with our own eyes.
The third day of this piercing caffeine withdrawal. I’m not embarrassed by the smallness of this problem, the symptoms are too large to ignore, a dull ache penetrating my muscles with a threatening I'm not done with you yet. Maybe going cold-turkey wasn’t ideal. I’ll smuggle a sip of coffee in later, but know myself enough to know that only a clean break will give me satisfaction. Daunte Wright was killed yesterday. He was assassinated at close range by a police chief. Her name is often followed by a hail of laudable adjectives, “veteran officer,” etc., and scrambles to justify Wright's killing, "she didn't mean to reach for her gun," etc. Chauvin had 18 complaints on his official record, two of which ended in discipline, including official letters of reprimand. On September 4, 2017, Chauvin was among officers responding to a… Read More...

Ramadan Diaries: Reprieve

My greatest resentment is how little they prepare you for becoming a woman
"Keepers of private notebooks are a different breed altogether, lonely and resistant rearrangers of things, anxious malcontents, children afflicted apparently at birth with some presentiment of loss."—Joan Didion, "On Keeping a Notebook" I am halfway into Sallie Tisdale's book Women of the Way, an indispensable chronicle of narratives by and about women in Buddhist lineages. "Obstacles often become doorways: what we struggle with frees us," she writes. "My bitterness made me long for a women's lineage, and finding a lineage has been the anodyne for my bitterness." The sexism and mandatory gender separation in the introductory chapter is dark and depressing. I feel a little out of my body, pausing to wonder if I exist. History is a cruel book regurgitating the inferiority of one sex as supplemental chapters to the main. A clip of Eartha Kitt (from the 1982… Read More...

Ramadan Diaries: Dissimulation

This is how you demobilize a cause: by framing ethical boundaries as negotiations
New York is gray and rainy and the streets are emptied of people, even more than usual. I look out the window at a row of more windows, my tiny slab of the city peering into other people's tiny slabs, inner lives carved inside matchbox apartments holding sweaters, lamps, spice racks, electronic devices, sometimes a pet. I am scheduled to give a lecture at Darat al Funun in the early East Coast morning, based on Amman time. The organizers and I conduct a run-of-show the night before. It is one-half a rundown of my content and one-half a technical rehearsal. We discussing what each of our smaller screens will do inside the viewers' bigger screen. I care about every quadrangle. I appreciate doing this problem-solving exercise with other people. The artist Amie Siegel once taught me the number-one rule of film production: plan and prepare meticulously for shooting day… Read More...

Ramadan Diaries: Analysis

"You promised me not to break your promise anymore, it is I, dear, who have caused this break." —"All of Asia is indefinitely on hold."
After a year that tore us in half, then in quarters, then eightfold pieces, there is enough confetti to fill a factory.  A year written somewhere between six feet of distance and six feet under. And this is not a play on words. The "Black Death" of 1665-6, under "Orders Conceived and Published by the Lord Major and Aldermen of the City of London Concerning the Infection of the Plague" required that the burial of the dead in graves measure "at least 6 foot deep." In the end, the 1.83 meters rule would be defunct within a year, when the bodies of over 100,000 victims compelled mass grave "pits" extending 20 feet below the surface of the earth. If you stretch out the DNA of one cell it would be six feet long. Full coffee withdrawal. Day One. I watch YouTube videos on quitting coffee and read short… Read More...

Ramadan Diaries, Day Thirty-One

We can’t seem to grasp the patience it takes for a tree to grow
Or Thirty-Two? It is Eid today. The discrepancy between which day on the lunar calendar it falls doesn't phase me. Contentiousness about these details—like deciding whether Christmas is on the 24th or 25th of December, or the 7th of January—feel like squabbles I can't be addled with, not today; at some point it is Christmas, for those who have constructed a narrative of Christmas. It's surprising that no one has concocted a Muslim astrological text of critical and mass appeal. There is still widespread vexation between the pagan zodiac and the revered moon. The lacuna between this furls my brow in para-theological concern. It feels somewhat arbitrary to argue over what is the most important star or planet, and to what degree it is allowed to hold sway over stories of human life. Anyway, I decide to go where I am invited, and today the festivities will… Read More...

Ramadan Diaries, Day Twenty-Nine

She is the kind of person who understands that nothing that can flow needs to be forced
9:14 a.m. Sometimes the atmosphere outside the window is an inescapable calculus for what it feels like to be alive right now. When rain falls unexpectedly, despite their better predictions, the highway of identity lengthens. Inside: a blank pillow, a meowing cat. The self is mirrored in an offshore self, beyond the rain, in some future-present tract where the rain has stopped. This momentary self is a step-stage, a Dantean purgatorial ring before the next heaven, the next hell. 11:40 a.m. A long walk to yoga. Last semester I asked the students in my studio art class to do a Deep Listening exercise, pace Pauline Oliveros. They would listen to one of their familiar landscapes mindfully, with a timer on. No pens or mobile phones present during the listening. Afterward, they would record what they experienced. At the moment I decide to do the exercise myself because I'm caught on… Read More...

Ramadan Diaries, Day Twenty-Seven

The battle over email is one over which I hold a false sense of equilibrium
  I dream that I'm playing capoeira and stop to drink five glasses of water. But the sunup hour arrives quickly, and mid-sip, I realize I have to stop drinking immediately. I shake myself awake, literally shaking my head right and left to snap out of it. ♦ This morning I have a delightful studio visit with a person who defies typical occupational categories. They are part-artist, part-technologist, but since they use algorithmic expression seemingly against itself I like to call them an anti-technologist. We make mutual appointments, one at my studio and one at theirs, and talk for at least an hour over our allotted time. When the conversation is so fervent with ideas, beaming with mutually co-created thought, I start to feel a low-rise buzzing in the part of my brain just above my ears. It's like I… Read More...

Ramadan Diaries, Day Twenty-Five

I am the algorithm's targeted audience for work-mode motivational posters
5:41 a.m. I lie in bed a few still minutes without moving. One of the underemphasized virtues of waking up early—easier to sustain this month than usual—is the temperature anomaly. An otherwise hot, stiflingly humid day can feel refreshingly cooler in the morning. An afternoon rain prospectively announces itself through a sunrise preamble of grayness, the ambiguous and mercurial mold lending a weirdly positive perspective to the day. I like to lie there and let the tentacles of the weather work their way through the window screen and into my skin in organic, vital contact. 8:25 a.m. Working out of a café whose owner knows me, and understands I can't order food or coffee because of the fast. I will probably not do this again, but for today, it feels generous and supportive. I patronize this place frequently, and have never sat at an… Read More...

Secret Catalan Poem is Out

From enactment to multi-authored text to translation to public performance to published volume
    A limited-edition risograph edition is out now from The Elephants, available here. Secret Catalan Poem is emblematic of my work method in non-hierarchical series. For this project, that format encompassed initial enactment to multi-authored text to translation to public performance to published volume. I'm grateful to Broc Russell, publisher of The Elephants, his team, and the visible and invisible forces that made this work possible. This work is informally dedicated to the city of Barcelona. → Also see this entry about the project's motivations and processes (and performance at Pioneer Works in 2018). Read More...

Ramadan Diaries, Day Twenty

Hunger can feel like a prolonged period of waiting, thirst feels like giving up
9:19 a.m. Headache! Specifically a caffeine-withdrawal leftover migraine from vacation, where I drank subpar hotel coffee for a week. I don't bounce back as quickly from this one as the day-one headache that never came. A humble reminder that everything changes, and things can always get worse.  12:34 p.m. N. sends me a Guardian article about veganism and Islam and it makes me happy to see this discussed in an open forum, especially during a food-conscious month. 2:27 p.m. Thirst. Heat. A dry, tightened throat like I've never experienced. It feels like every cell in my body is quenched and gasping for a single drop of water.  From Arabic ramaḍān, from ramaḍa ‘be hot’. The lunar reckoning of the Muslim calendar brings the fast eleven days earlier each year, eventually causing Ramadan to occur in any season; originally it was supposed to be in one of the hot months. The sun near Prospect Park,… Read More...

Ramadan Diaries, Day Eighteen

No subject should be too low for a painting or a poem
Back from traveling—several days of not fasting—to menstruation. Not fasting today either. It feels a bit strange to sit in a café in the middle of the day. The soft sound of spring rain permeates the raucous batucada percussion of the Brazilian music playing indoors.   Eating midday for almost a week during the fasting month felt like a break I didn't entirely want or deserve. But we had planned this vacation a long time ago, C. and I. ♦ It feels hyperbolic to say but this month may have changed how I look at meals forever. On the plane yesterday, we were offered Ritz Bits Cheese Crackers. Since the crackers contained milk, I offered them to my seatmate. "Vegan," I smiled. She took them and smiled back. The flight attendant didn't have vegan snacks, but I felt silly for… Read More...